20 December 2010

Scene and Heard



SCENE: The kids end-of-year Christmas party starring Mr G as Santa. Scrag quivers with fear and clings to his mummy, refusing to go anywhere near The Bearded One.



HEARD: "Mummy Santa Claus got my daddy's shoes...!"
I could not believe my ears. From a distance Scrag spotted his daddy's shoes on Santa's feet and accused Santa of stealing them!


SCENE: Teacher thankyou gifts, last day of school. Look at our pretty boxes. Don't they look expensive?

 
Boxes: $2.50 each from 2Cheap. Decorative wooden tree Ornaments: $1 each from 2Cheap. Ribbon: recycled. Contents: Homemade Rocky Road & Peppermint Bark. The Smiles on their faces? Priceless.


HEARD: Actually read rather than heard. Dash made his long-suffering teacher a card with a collage angel inside. (Art is not his strong point but it's the thought that counts, right?) As an afterthought he wrote:


Tee Hee.


SCENE: The angel dressing room before the kids Christmas Production on Sunday.

Check out these cute black-faced sheepies... recognise anyone?


And these pretty angels. Aren't they sweet?


Look... it's my friend Gail over at Delightfully Diva-ish, putting it all on the line for the sake of the kids. *Smile*



HEARD: (Miss Fab) "Mum I found a proper hoolay..."
Me (slightly confused and picturing hawaiian angels in flower leis): "HUH? A what?"
Miss Fab: "You know mum, a hoolay. You know those things angels wear on their heads?"
Oh. She means a Halo. Tee Hee.


OVERHEARD: (Dash) "Grandma do you know what I want for Christmas? Just four things.... Some SillyBandz - two packs... some GoGos - two packs... to be with my family... and to not get growled..."

Oops. Looks like I've overdone it on the gift-buying again. He would have been happy with $20 bucks worth of the latest school fad gears and a whole lotta peace and love.
xxx
18 December 2010

What's the Big Deal with the Baby in the Manger?


Call me old-fashioned but I sure do love tradition.
And my favourite traditions of all are the Christmas ones.
The kids love them too. They look forward to putting up the tree, eating Christmas treats, watching Christmas movies... oh and of course opening Christmas presents.

Traditions give richness and colour to a special season, right?
They give children a sense of belonging and create wonderful memories. Great.

Why then does it seem to me (and apparently many other bloggers out there) that in spite of all the fun of the green and red traditions, there is something missing.
There's an emptiness. A sense of going through the motions.
And I keep asking myself, why?

Why do we feel kind of empty when we are baking Christmas cookies? Why the flatness when hanging the tinsel? How come the twinkling lights are just not doing it for me this year?

And the thing I've come to is this: Traditions have to have meaning behind them, or they are pointless.
We have to have a sense of why we are doing all this. What are we celebrating, and why.

Now off the top of my head, for the sake of my own Christmas Spirit, I am going to try to recapture the Why.
Why Christmas? I'm not talking about Winter Solstice here. We are steaming in the midst of a hot humid summer. Winter Solstice has nothing to do with it for me.

Christmas. Christ Mass.
Christmas is the remembrance and celebration of Christ's birth.
OK, stay with me here.

What is so special about that, right? Millions of babies born every day. What's the big deal about this one?


The Story, the miracle of Christmas is incredibly simple and surprisingly wonderful.
A 15-year-old Jewish girl, engaged to a carpenter in a no-account village in the outbacks of Palestine has an encounter with an angel - or so she says when she is found to be pregnant.
Shocking in that day and age and potentially punishable by stoning.

The fiance is the only one who knows for sure that it wasn't him who got her in that state.


But he's a good guy. He doesn't want her to be killed even though he knows she must have done the dirty on him. So he says nothing, deciding to break the engagement when the fuss dies down, letting everyone assume the baby is his. Scandalous but not terminal.

Then he gets a visit from the angel. It seems his fiance was telling the truth: the baby is Divine, God is his father. This child is the Promised One who will reconnect people with the Almighty.

Even as I write this I know that this story is not really explainable in human terms. Visits from Angels? Divinely conceived babies? Accept it as true or not, this is the story.


Fast forward about seven months. The pregnant girl is now married to the carpenter and due to give birth any week now.
Then along comes the Roman Emperor and orders a census - oh, and everyone has to go back to their home town to register.
How inconvenient. Especially when you are 9 months pregnant and married to a man who comes from a town 128 kilometers away. And the only way to get there is by walking.

A fit person could walk the distance in four days, apparently. But we are talking a pregnant girl here. It would have taken a week, they reckon.


I've been nine months pregnant before. It's painful and uncomfortable at the best of times, even lying down. I can not imagine how it would have been spending a week on the back of a donkey in that state.
And of course when this pair arrive at their destination, everybody else has beaten them to it (after all it only took them four days) so all the hotels are booked.

Meanwhile Mary goes into labour. On the back of the Donkey. While her husband frantically knocks on doors. No Room at the Inn.

Until finally someone takes pity on them and offers them a stable.
Ever tried imagining how that would have been? Giving birth for the very first time in a cave, on a pile of straw, with no doctor, no midwife, not even your mother.

This little fifteen year old pulls it off and Jesus is safely born into the World.


Which is right about when things start getting interesting.
There's a Star that shines above the stable. Some Kings from Eastern Lands, astrologers who study the Heavens, have trekked for weeks after discovering this unusual star. They followed it all the way to backward Palestine, knowing that it meant the birth of a King.

What do they find? A newborn baby in a stable. Not human royalty, but a King nonetheless.
And here we come to the part that tugs my heartstrings.

Assuming you believe the story (which I do) why would God choose to reveal himself in this way?
Why come to Earth at all?
And if He did, why not appear in all His glory? Why not arrive as a mighty Prince with an army of angels?
Why strip Himself of all His power, all His divinity and come as a helpless baby?
And to go even further, not a baby born to human Kings or even a wealthy merchant.

A baby born to the humblest of people. In the humblest of circumstances.

There people, there lies the Miracle of Christmas. There is the essence of the Spirit of Christmas.

A King gave it all up for Love.
He saw us struggling with our rules and our religions. Trying to reach Him and failing every time.
Ultimate Power clothed itself in Weakness and came to meet us where we are at.
Not to overwhelm us and force our obedience.
But to live as the humblest of us lived. In poverty, in frailty.
To identify with our weakness.
And to lead the way back to connection with our Maker, our Father.
By becoming one of us He shows us the Way.
By giving up everything He shows us we matter.
By paying such a high price, He shows us our value to Him.

"Peace on Earth and Goodwill towards all mankind."
That's what the angels sang and that's why they sang it.

They sang in Honour of the Prince of Heaven born as one lower than the angels.
Wonderful, Counselor, Prince of Peace, Almighty God.


A man called Nicolas honoured Jesus by giving gifts to the poor to celebrate His Birth. The Church made Nicolas a Saint and continued his tradition of giving at Christmas. The man in red. Saint Nick. I don't mind Santa at Christmas, he's fun.

But lets come back to the the Reason for the Season.
Celebrate Miracles.
Celebrate Grace. Celebrate Hope and New Life.
The Baby in the Manger. Love Come Down.

I feel more Christmassy already.
xx

Images from GoogleImages: The Nativity Story Movie
15 December 2010

UnChristmassy

Today I coloured my hair, scratched my itchy bites while watching Scrag play at the park... and hoped the fuzzy wool that replaced my brain would dissipate before I need to use my grey matter for anything.

I've been thinking about spam.
Not the whale of a ham. The kind of e-litter that clogs up your inbox.
Letters from Mr Musubu, Mr Kangolu and Mr Tibuumba  asking for my very great assistance to transfer money from their frozen funds in Hong Kong in return for fifty percent of the loot. As if!
Do people still think those are real? Does anyone still reply? I wonder.
I must get at least six different versions of this scam in my inbox every day.
I wonder who these scammy spam writers are (and if they have ever heard of spellcheck).

I've also been a little bit flumoxed by my lack of Christmas Spirit.
What?! I hear you cry. You can't seriously be feeling un-Christmassy. But you put up a Christmas linky! You made an advent calendar from scratch! You decorated your blog header! You made a special Christmas blog page!

Why, thankyou for noticing.

But really. These are merely attempts to get into the Spirit of the Season.
I find myself nodding my head in sympathy when I read of people struggling with a certain amount of grinchy-ness.
Not for any lack of trying I'm telling you.
I've made rocky road for the teachers.
I've put up the tree.
I've written little notes in the advent stockings and done 98% of my Christmas shopping.
And still.

Decidedly unChristmassy at heart. Who knows why.

Then I read this post this morning, linked up by Gently Eccentric Mum. Thankyou so much, Ms Eccentric,  for linking up. Your post was just what I needed.

Ms Eccentric made a list with her hubby of what really matters to them at Christmas and then made a plan to fit all these into the Advent Season...
  • Spirituality
  • Family
  • Creativity
  • Community
  • Charity
  • Thankfulness
She also supplied a link to a free Advent eBook from a lady called Ann Voscamp at A Holy Experience with readings etc for each day of Advent. I am planning to scrounge up some paper and print out the remaining days. I want Christmas to be more for us than Santa and Stockings, gifts and pine trees. Maybe this might help.

So if you are feeling unChristmassy too, pop over and read the Post: Could socks hold the key to Christmas Peace. xx


PS My lovely friend Linda just reminded me of this wonderful clip put together by their church (St Pauls, Auckland). You HAVE to watch this. The Christmas Story told by kids in a unique Kiwi style. It's soooo lovely. The best Christmas thing I've EVER seen. It will make you feel all gooey I promise.

14 December 2010

Classic Kiwi... Sandy Bay


While our northern friends shiver under their blankets of snow, we Kiwis Downunder are enjoying an early Summer. While they dream of a White Christmas... we dream of the ultimate Kiwi getaway... a bach by the sea.

We found our dream at Sandy Bay on the Tutukaka Coast this weekend.
The Bach (holiday cottage) was not flash.

And by that I mean it was perfect.



A rustic cottage nestled above the beach, metres from the sand.

Eighty-six steps down a winding bush path. Everything must be carried down. Or up. No TV. No Cell phone coverage. We are far from the busy racing noisy civilised world.

The only sounds are the waves, the gulls, the tuis... (oh and the squabbling kids but lets just block that bit out)...



Brimming with memories and guest-books and cobwebs. The ghosts of summers past.



Rationed water and a septic tank (with flushable loo). The long-drop was long ago demoted.



An empty beach. A wide bay.
Nothing between you and paradise.
Cloudless skies.
Pohutukawa in bloom, tui birds swaying on flax.
A deck facing the ocean.
City lights too far away to cloud galaxies on display at night.
Mozzies and sandflies, daddy-long-legs and cicadas are your only neighbours.



Mussels on the rocks. Collected in bulging pockets-full, steamed, doused in lemon and slurped down.
Fish in the sea (and there they stayed).




Days spent swimming, jumping waves, climbing trees and reading books.



Days without looking in a mirror. or caring about what you are wearing. Beach fashion is so simple. Beach hair is so wild.


Nights spent having "sleepovers" with my kids in the bunk room.
We saw a wishing star, Dash and I.
He said, Mum make a wish. So I did.
I can tell you what I wished for since it already came true.


I wished for a lovely time at Sandy Bay with my family, far from the hustle bustle.
A little slice of rustic Kiwi Paradise.



I felt so blessed to give my kids a taste of a true Kiwi summer. No fancy gadgets. No plush amenities. Basic plumbing. Basic living. Surrounded by Heaven on Earth, truly.


What else could you wish for your kids than that?
xx

13 December 2010

Favourite Christmas Food







Jamie's Christmas Mince Pies

Today Princess helped me make Jamie Oliver's take on Christmas Mince Pies... and glaze the Christmas Ham. (By the way if you are making Jamie's pies, I don't know how he got them out of the tins so easily - mine stuck like crazy, but came out eventually! I think I needed lots more grease in the tins!

INGREDIENTS (Makes 12)
A packet of pre made filo pastry
A packet of pre made puff pastry (about 500g)
1 jar of mincemeat
Zest of 1/2 an orange
Dried Cranberries
Sliced almonds
Icing sugar
Melted Butter


  • Roll out the puff pastry on a floured surface until it is about 3 mm thick
  • Paste a thin-to-medium layer of mincemeat on the puff pastry sheet.
    Sprinkle over the cranberries, sliced almonds and orange zest.
  • Roll up the pastry into a roll and cut into slices about 2 cm wide. Place your sliced puff pastry mincemeat slices to one side.
  • Take 4-6 sheets of filo pastry and brush them with melted butter. Lie the pastry over your muffin tins, butter side down, covering the whole tray.
  • Push the filo pastry into each muffin hole, then place a puff pastry roll slice in each depression. Butter around the edges of the filo pastry; sprinkle with more sliced almonds.
  • Bake at 180˚C for 20-25 minutes.
  • Remove and allow to cool. Dust with icing sugar
  • To separate the pies, you are meant to just snap them off (or like me you may need a knife and lots of gentle persuasion).



Christmas Cookies

125g butter, softened
3/4 cup sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla essence
1 egg
2 cups plain flour
1 teaspoon baking powder

Cream the butter, sugar and vanilla together until light and fluffy. Add the egg and beat well.
Sift flour and baking powder together and mix into creamed mixture. Use your hands to combine and knead into a ball of dough. You may need to add extra flour if the mixture is too sticky.

Break into smaller pieces and roll out; cut out shapes with Christmas cookie cutters and place on an oven tray lined with baking paper. (This is the part the kids love to do)

Keep rolling the dough and cutting until there is no mixture left. (Or keep half the mixture back, wrap in plastic wrap and keep in the fridge for another day).




Bake at 190oC for 12 minutes or until pale golden.
Allow to cool and then ice with red or white icing and decorate with silver cachous. Then share with the people you love. ♥











Mum's Sherry-Glazed Baked Christmas Ham



INGREDIENTS
1 half-cob smoked Christmas Ham
Brown sugar (a goodly amount)
Sherry (a decent splodge, enough to make a sticky paste when added to the brown sugar)
Mustard Powder (1 teaspoon)
Whole Cloves (half packet)

Put the brown sugar in a bowl and add the mustard and sherry; mix to a nice thick syrup.
Peel the rind off the ham and score the fat diagonally to form a criss-cross pattern. Place the ham in a roasting dish, and brush the glaze over thickly.

Poke in the cloves until the whole ham is studded. Bake slowly on the lowest oven setting for 1.5-2 hours or until it is golden. You can brush over more glaze if you like. (Don't use the fan setting).

This ham has the best flavour ever. It is my staple Christmas food, and great for sammies on Boxing Day.

















Easy Peasy Christmas Trifle

INGREDIENTS
1 medium unfilled trifle-sponge from the supermarket
2 cups of frozen or fresh berries
2 packets of raspberry jelly (dissolved in 3 cups of boiling water)
1 litre packet of thick readymade custard
1 250ml bottle of whipping cream
1 Cadbury flake bar (or grated milk chocolate)

You do the first bit of this trifle the day before you want to eat it, so the jelly can set.
  • Chop up the sponge cake into chunks and place in a large, deep serving bowl.
  • Mix the (defrosted) berries through, then pour over the jelly mixture. Leave to cool then place in fridge to set.
The next day pour in the custard over the sponge/jelly mixture. Use the whole packet. Before serving, whip the cream with a little bit of icing sugar, and spread in a thick layer over the custard. Crumble up the flake bar and sprinkle over the top.

{My favourite breakfast food on Boxing Day is leftover trifle... mmmmmm... sad or what??}


10 December 2010

Link Up Your Christmas Posts...


There are so many lovely, inspiring and funky Christmas ideas out there in BlogLand.


I love Christmas. The smell of pine needles gives me the warm fuzzies. Twinkling Christmas lights make me happy. Christmas treats make me drool.

Red and Green, gold and silver - my favourite Christmas colours. And the candles!


I love nothing better than digging out the tree, hanging the ornaments collected over time, each one triggering memories. Precious, homemade, uniquely found and given ornaments; new memories added every year.


I love it all! I love the stories! The movies! The traditions and the memories.
I love the meaning. The many meanings of Christmas.
Layers of tradition, folklore and faith.
Family. Love. Joy. Peace on Earth and good will towards all mankind.
I'm a sucker for all of it.



So I'll keep this simple. I want to read your Christmas posts. Your stories, ideas, recipes, traditions. Even favourite posts from years gone by. Will you share them with me... and others?

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