12 December 2013

Christmas Movie nights: Elf


One of the best ways to get into the Christmas mood is to watch Christmas Movies. Although we enjoy re-watching our favourites each year, I'm always on the hunt for new Christmas movies to watch so I have no idea how "Elf" had managed to remain unwatched by us until now.

In the past few weeks I'd seen a number of FaceBook statuses which said something like "can't wait to snuggle up by the fire and watch my favourite Christmas movie, Elf"...
Based on these random recommendations (and since we'd never seen Elf before and wanted to watch something new) I  ordered Elf from Fatso and we snuggled down to watch it last Friday night.

Starring the very silly Will Ferrell as Buddy the Elf, this movie has some genuine laugh-out-loud moments. Even Mr G (who is a very picky movie-viewer and has been known to walk out of sub-par movies on a regular basis) enjoyed this one tremendously.

What is great about Elf is that it doesn't take itself seriously at all. Everything seems just a little bit tongue in cheek, and Buddy the Elf is so clumsily naive and daft that you can't help but snort at his stupidity.

Buddy is not a real Elf, but is a human who crawled into Santa's sack one Christmas when he was just a baby. He's big and clumsy and is the only one at the North Pole who has no idea that he isn't really an elf at all. When he discovers his true identity, Buddy sets off for New York (where else?) to find his dad. Of course everyone in the real world thinks he's a total nut job, which makes for some pretty funny viewing and some of those LOL moments.

If you have never watched this one (perhaps thinking, as I did, that it was just another lame cheesey American Christmas flick) we recommend giving it a go. We were pleasantly surprised by Elf and have now added it to our list of Christmas favourites.

Starring Will Ferrell, Zooey Deschanel, James Cann and Ed Asner (2003); Rated [PG]


09 December 2013

My *UPDATED* Guide to an Unstressy Christmas


You may have noticed an absence of Christmas crafting posts here on my blog, a dearth of Christmas recipes, a lack of Christmas how to's. 

In the past you may have found me madly rushing around buying presents/baking gingerbread/mulling wine/decking the halls/recreating endless stuff I've found on Pinterest/getting into the holiday spirit...? 

In years gone by I would have been Advent Calendar-ing and Elf-on-the-Shelfing with the best of them. 
My teeth would be nearly ground to nubs from the sheer effort of trying to drag my family kicking and screaming into the Spirit of Christmas. Whether they liked it or not. Whether they complained or not. Whether it killed me or not.

And of course I would be madly blogging about it all. Photographing every step of creating my glue-gun bunting, recording in painful detail how to wrap the teachers gifts so nicely with cellophane and ribbon.

This year I have been forced to take a very laid back approach to Christmas Fever due to mental health constraints and a general lack of energy, as well as a preoccupation with trying to flog my Christmas Book.

I'm taking an approach to Christmas this year called "Barely Blogging". It's the only way to keep my sanity and have any chance of enjoying this special season. I'm taking each day as it comes, making few plans, watching loads of Christmas movies and actually trying to "just be" with my family.

As I occasionally browse through Pinterest aimlessly pinning things I know I will never create, I wonder: How's everyone else doing out there? Are you surviving the rush or wishing it was over already? Drowning in things to do... or actually enjoying the season? For what it's worth I thought I'd share with you a few of the things that help me survive - and enjoy - Christmas. Without too much Stress. 



1. Figure out what is most important to YOU about Christmas (and then use that to reprioritise everything)
It sounds obvious, but sometimes we can get so caught up in the activity of the season that we forget to stop and think: What is this really all for?
Who are the people we most want to spend time with this season? (make time for them)
What are the things we most enjoy doing as a family at this time of the year? (make time for those)

Take stock, take a breath and ditch everything that doesn't add to the enjoyment (i.e. the Peace and Joy) of Christmas. 



2. Find a way to connect with the Reason for the Season
I stopped stressing about to-do lists and began actually enjoying the season when I found a way to reconnect with the meaning of Christmas for me, i.e. the Christmas Story
A few years back I did it by writing a Christmas book for my Children, but I keep that Christmas meaning alive and fresh in a number of other ways...
  • Christmas Music: I download new Christmas songs from iTunes/Spotify to help keep my Christmas Music collection fresh. I make playlists for each mood: One with Christmas Carols for when I feel spiritual/sentimental; another with fun Christmas jingles for when we want to be merry.
  • Christmas shows: We look forward to our church Nativity Play each year, along with a few other local events where we can meet friends, relax and hang out. We try to avoid the crush and the rush at the major city-wide events and stay local.
  • Christmas Books: Reading favourite Christmas stories is a great way to connect with the season. We have a collection of Christmas books that we add to each year.  Home-made books are another favourite way to connect with the spirit of Christmas. A few years back I wrote An Unexpected Christmas for the kids; another year I made a photobook of all our Christmas memories on Snapfish, as a family gift to open on Christmas Eve. They get read and re-read every year.
  • Christmas Movies: We spend hours watching old favourites and discovering new ones. This time of year there are often Christmas films available on the streaming apps. (Our favourite Christmas Movie reviews here at the bottom of the page)
  • Christmas Giving: We always try to find a way to bless others at Christmas, whether its gathering up gifts for needy kids via City Mission, dropping off a hamper to bless another family or getting the kids doing chores to earn money for something from the Tear Fund Gift for Life catalogue... Blessing others at this time of the year helps offset greed and commercialism (and always leads to great warm fuzzies).
3. Put a lid on Greed
One of the most disheartening things about this season is the way it can turn our kids into greedy spoilt brats if we're not careful. Focusing on giving to others as a family is one of the best ways to offset this. Another way is to put limits on the Christmas spending spree by setting expectations early.
This year I told the kids early on that we would be following this rule this Christmas: "Something you want, Something you need, Something to wear, Something to read."
Setting their expectations early really helps. They end up saying, "Mum, for my something to read I'd really love a Thea Stilton book" or "Mum for my something I need I really need a lunchbox, and socks - cos Dash keeps stealing mine!"
This not only helps me focus on what to buy but lets them know not to expect a massive pile of loot under the tree. It also helps reduce financial pressure.
Below are the printable labels I've created for their presents. You are welcome to take them and use them if you want to give this plan a go.

[To use, simply right-click, and save to your computer; they print out on an A4 page.]
4. Limit Obligations
Sometimes the biggest stress comes from being pulled in too many directions by various obligations. Some of these we can't avoid, but others we can free ourselves from.
For instance, Christmas Cards.
I am just not a Christmas Card person. Never have been.
We send Christmas cards only to my hubby's English family (because they are Very Big in England) but our friends and acquaintances know that if they don't get a card from us, it's not because we don't like them. It's because we don't do Christmas Cards.
It's the same with gift giving. We get Christmas Gifts for our immediate family. The children give thankyou gifts to their teachers. Sometimes (if we get around to it) we take cookies to the neighbours.

But there are no obligations. We won't stress ourselves out doing it, we'll just do what we can.



5. Don't reinvent the wheel - take shortcuts
You can have the fun without all the stress. Don't tear your hair out over a handmade gingerbread house that won't stick together: get a kit from the store (sixteen bucks from Kmart). Use store-bought custard and sponge cake for the trifle, a Cowells pavlova, an Aunt Betty's Christmas Pudd.

Sure, do some baking with the kids, mull the wine yourself, but don't feel like you have to do everything from scratch. Take a deep breath... and find a shortcut.

Here's one that'll save your Christmas Eve: Wrap the presents as you buy them. Don't wait until Christmas Eve and do them all at once. This is a Thankless back-breaking exercise which is sure to keep you up late wondering why you bought so much stuff. Wrap-as-you-go lets you just chill and enjoy Christmas Eve, mulled wine, (store-bought) Christmas mince tarts and candlelight...




6. Don't compare to others, but fill the house with Christmas in your own way
The danger of sites like Pinterest is that we can start to compare our efforts to the awesomeness we see there. Down this road of comparison lies discontent and disatisfaction. Don't go there.
Sure, look for inspiration on the net, on Pinterest, on crafty blogs... but don't let it make you feel like your Christmas efforts are not "enough".

Instead fill your house with a sense of the season, your special memories and things that mean Christmas to you. Whether it's your childrens' old kindy decorations, burning scented candles, stringing up some twinkle lights, decorating a real pine tree (for that Christmas scent) with the decorations you've collected through the years or making some humble glue-gun Christmas bunting to hang in your window. 

Most of all... think PEACE. Think JOY. Think LOVE. If anything on your list hinders these things, it's maybe time to edit your to-do list....? 

So what if we've ticked off doing all the Christmas activities and traditions from our list but we've exhausted ourselves in the process and can't wait until the whole jolly rigmarole is over? 
Sometimes less is more.

Now go and have a beautiful blessed unstressy Christmas. xx



Favourite stories from past Christmases about finding the meaning...
04 December 2013

Christmas Movie Nights - The Santa Clause Movies


One of the best ways to get into the Christmas mood is to watch Christmas Movies. This year the kids requested a Christmas Movie Marathon Family Sleepover in the lounge to kick things off.
The movies they requested? The Santa Clause 1, 2 & 3, back to back.


Scrag in particular loves these movies, and has been watching them endlessly since Fatso sent them to us, long before our Movie Marathon. I have to admit that cheesey as they are, I rather enjoy them. Especially the first (original) one, made back in 1994.
For our Christmas Movie Marathon Sleepover we dragged in mattresses, hung Christmas bunting, strung Christmas lights and snuggled down together to watch Scrag's favourite Christmas movies (he loves to play Santa Claus like Charlie in the movie)

Tim Allen stars as Scott Calvin, a divorced dad, who has his son Charlie to stay on Christmas Eve. Charlie is woken by a clatter on the roof, and Scott goes out to investigate... only to startle Santa Claus, who trips and falls off the roof. Santa disappears leaving only his suit; a card in the pocket instructs: If something should happen to me, put on The Suit. The Reindeer will know what to do.

In doing so Scott unknowingly becomes subject to "The Santa Clause" - he is now the new Santa.
Of course Scott is a cynical adult who stopped believing in Santa long ago. Even after he finds himself at the North Pole talking to an elf named Judy, sipping hot cocoa, he still doesn't believe what he is seeing.
Judy tells him: "But Santa you've got it all wrong. Seeing isn't believing. Believing is seeing!"
What follows is a mix of comedy and heartbreak as Scott finds himself turning into Santa in spite of himself.


The second movie was made ten years later, when little Charlie is all grown up. Santa discovers a "Missus Clause" - he has to get married or cease to be Santa. In the third Movie Jack Frost is jealous of all the attention Santa gets and finds a way to trick Santa into invoking "the Escape Clause" so he can take his place and remake Christmas in his own image.

We've never watched all three back-to-back like that, but I have to say it was a lot of fun, and set the scene for the start of Christmas.

02 December 2013

A Christmas Fashion Photo Shoot (with Pumpkin Patch)


On the First Day of Christmas... we put up our Tree.
We hung our Christmas bunting and strung our Christmas lights.
It was looking very festive.


On the Second Day of Christmas... we tested out our new camera.
We had a Christmas Fashion Shoot, starring new threads from Pumpkin Patch. Fancy clothes for Christmas shared among friends.
It was rather jolly fun.


 Miss Fab had a couple of lovely friends over after church. I could hear them in the bedroom plotting a fashion show. I'd been planning to do a "fashion shoot" this week to share the lovely clothes Pumpkin Patch sent me for Christmas, but overhearing these girls, I thought of a better idea than snapping just my two kids in the garden - a Pumpkin Patch fashion shoot using all three delicious young models.
And of course they all jumped at the chance.


Miss Fab is wearing the Optical White Carly Rose Cardigan. Her friend Emily is wearing the super-cute Miami Sky Meadow Print Crop Tee. Olivia is modelling the gorgeous Daisy Emblem A line skirt (with yellow daisy detailing). Other clothes and accessories are models' own. Aren't they gorgeous?


 Ahhh yes, these girls made super-keen models. They would have been at home in any Pumpkin Patch catalogue; at-ease in front of the camera, taking direction, looking cute.


But then it was Scrag's turn.


Scrag is super-cute and rather good-looking (if I may say so myself), but lately he has developed a bit of awkwardness in front of the camera. If he knows the camera is on him, he pulls this funny face...


He even runs away...

Eventually the girls managed to persuade this reluctant little model to do his job and POSE...


We needed to show you the lovely clothes Pumpkin Patch sent, after all.
Scrag is wearing Aegean Sea Slimfit Chino shorts teamed with an Aztec Print SS Tee and Endless Wave Page Blue Check Shirt. Very stylie (big brother was most impressed with the shorts and pocket-tee)


In the end our reluctant model pulled it off - and pronounced that he likes the clothes and wants to "wear them out for good." Oh Yes, I can promise you this outfit won't be worn on the trampoline or to school. 
I'm thinking church, Glow and Christmas Day.


I don't think Pumpkin Patch will be calling us wanting dear wee Scrag to star in their mailers any time soon... but those girls? Yep, they're naturals. Waddya reckon?

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DISCLOSURE: Pumpkin Patch supplied us with these lovely clothes so we could share them with you here. We genuinely love the clothes and think they are gorgeous. Thankyou Pumpkin Patch
28 November 2013

Army Party: Camouflage Birthday Cake & Cupcakes


I'm not a precision cake decorator, by any means. Birthday cakes for me need to be deceptively simple - the best ones look impressive but are actually straightforward and easy to do.

When Dash requested an Army Party, I was racking my brains trying to figure out what birthday cake I could make to suit - until I spotted the brilliant gummy Army Men lollies on KiwiCakes website. Suddenly I knew what I could do - a battlefield cake. My old fallback-in-a-roasting dish, a nice big rectangular cake canvas, on which to create an edible work of art.

I was already planning to make camouflage cupcakes, but a genius friend suggested making the birthday cake camo on the inside too. Again, deceptively simple. Here's how to do it...

Bake the Cake:

To fill the roasting dish, bake a double batch of your favourite butter cake recipe, or use this one I've doubled for you already:

3 cups of high grade flour
6 teaspoons of baking powder
2 cups of white sugar
1 cup of milk
4 eggs
250g butter, melted
2 teaspoons of vanilla

Beat all ingredients on high with an electric mixer for five minutes.
Then...

  1. Separate the mixture into three bowls and add a dash of gel food colouring* to each: Projel Khaki, Leaf Green and Black (with a tablespoon or two of cocoa powder added to the black bowl as well)
  2. Place spoonful blobs of each colour randomly into a well greased (or lined) roasting dish
  3. Continue until all the mixture is used up and bake for 25-30 minutes at 180oC or until cake springs back when lightly touched
*gel colouring must be used if you want your cake to have the vivid colours; regular food colouring will turn out dull and disappointing once baked. You can find professional grade gel colours on the KiwiCakes website

Once the cake has cooled, it's time to Decorate the Cake...


Mix up a double batch of buttercream frosting and separate into three bowls; Add a dash of gel colour to each bowl: leaf green (for the grassy areas), khaki (for a clay effect) and black with a little cocoa powder added to the black bowl for the dark mud base.

You will also need to have kept aside three camo cupcakes (see below) to create the knobbly hill. To decorate you'll need some mini flake bars, licorice straps and gummy army men lollies.

Separate the licorice straps into thin strips using your fingernail; this will become the "barbed wire" for your trench.


Create your battlefield layout: (1) Cut the tops off two cupcakes and arrange the three of them into a hill in one corner of your rectangle cake. (2) Dig out a shallow "trench" on the opposite end of your cake with a knife (you can see the camouflage effect inside the cake *yay*)

Using a rubber spatula, apply the darkest colour frosting to the inside of the trench and its neighbouring cake edge, and to secure the cupcake hill and "cliffs"


Now comes the part where you can be artistic

  1. "Paint" and "sculpture" your battle field with the buttercream frosting
  2. Use the khaki "clay" colour for the sides of the hill and around the edges of the trench; put the green grass colour on last, but then mess it up a little with the clay in spots - it is a battle field after all... no golf course grass here!
  3. Using a rubber spatula gives you great control and it goes on quickly. 
  4. Layer up the colour to create depth and texture (aerial view)
  5. The "cliffs" side view - see how textured and random the layering is, but it creates a real sense of depth

Now you get to have fun adding in the details. Position your army men on the battlefield (cut the legs off before placing them in the trench); wind the "barbed wire" around slivers of flake bar "logs"; scatter flake bar crumbs around the edges of the trench for added texture

Lastly, I added a "flag" on top of the hill, and candles. 

AT THE PARTY (Overhead on the way to lighting the candles): "Hey come on! Come check out this epic cake!" Yep, our platoon of 11-year olds were impressed...



... and inside, a camo surprise!


Camouflage Cupcakes

After all that you should find making the camo cupcakes, super-easy! Use your favourite recipe or mine (found here); mine makes 12-15 cupcakes. Double it if you need more than this (remember to keep three cupcakes back for your "hill".

  1. Use the three gel colours as before: Projel KhakiLeaf Green and Black 
  2. Separate the mixture in three bowls - for the cupcakes I actually had four colours, but three works better, I realised in hindsight.
  3. Add your gel colours to each bowl of mixture (with a tablespoon or two of cocoa powder added to the black bowl as well)

Line the cupcake tins with plain cupcake papers (remove these later and put them in your fancy wrappers; if you bake the cupcakes in your fancy wrappers, they will lose their colour and go yucky. very disappointing.
  1. Add a small blob of khaki mixture to each cupcake liner with a teaspoon
  2. Add a blob of each other colour to your cupcake liners
  3. Keep adding mixture colours randomly until all the mixture is used up.
Then, you bake them. (When they're baked they come out all colourful and camo-like.)


Once the cupcakes have cooled, remove them from their plain wrappers and put them in their fancy ones (I used dark green with scalloped edges from KiwiCakes.

  1. Mix up a batch of  buttercream frosting, separate into three bowls and add your three colours as before Projel KhakiLeaf Green and Black (with a tablespoon or two of cocoa powder added to the black bowl as well). I suggest making the colours LIGHTER than what I did by using less colouring, as the colours darkened between when I first mixed them on Friday and our party the next day
  2. Put random blobs of colour into an icing applicator (mine is a $2 shop cheapie, but works just fine)
  3. Apply a swirl of icing to each cupcake - ooh look, it's camo!
Then use any leftover icing and lollies to turn plain cookies into army themed ones...



More Army Party Stuff:
27 November 2013

Army Combat Party (a fun adventure)


When your kids get older, they start to get very definite ideas about what they want in a birthday party and for the past year all Dash has wanted to do for his 11th birthday is go to Laser Combat (a cross between laser tag and paintball). So an army-themed party it had to be.

With the laser combat part taking up most of the afternoon, I still wanted to have food and hang-out time at home (I do love an at-home party) so wanted to create an Army H.Q. at home where we would assemble before the battle, then regroup for food and cake.

I have to admit I had rather a lot of fun creating this one. The styling had to avoid anything too babyish or cute; it needed to be rugged with a slice of "cool" for a bunch of adventurous 11-year old boys. I think we pulled it off...

[Pallets recycled from the dump - stencil tutorial here; camo duvet cover found on TradeMe for $2;
cargo net from Ali Express with free shipping]
I turned the carport into an Army H.Q. Mess Hall/Rec Room. Stencilled Pallet signs, old canvas camp stretchers, sacking, some camo no-sew bunting and a camouflage cargo net all helped to create a great army atmosphere.

My trusty lemonade stand did duty as a Hydration Station...

[coffee sacks $2 from Geoff's Emporium, camo cups from Kiwi Cakes, Army soda label printables on ginger beer bottles here; genuine army water bottle brought back from China; no-sew bunting tutorial here]

The recruits congregated first at the Army H.Q. where they made use of the Rec Hall (foozeball, soccer) until the convoy was ready to depart for the battlefield. Off to Laser Combat we went.


This is "Magic", the guy who brought Laser Combat to New Zealand. He has created the ultimate place for adventure-loving boys (and girls) in Riverhead Forest.


The legend goes that he's ex-Army (ex-SAS, say the boys, who gaze at him wide-eyed as he gives them their briefing).


As the boys gear up and slap camo on each other's faces you can feel the excitement building. Some of the boys have played before and know they're in for a great adventure. The rookies are excited too; the minute they lay their eyes on those laser guns they realise this is going to be awesome. Me? I'm starting to wish I was playing...


It's just like indoor laser tag; each "soldier" wears  a sensor on their head, which records when you are hit. Each team has a "medic box" which acts as each team's base and records the team's data; when someone is "killed" (after being shot five times) they go back to the medic box and "respawn".


Magic shows the boys how to use the gear, how to stay safe, how to be commandos.
"If you do this, it's all good, but if you do that, it's not good times... not good times at all," he says (and the boys come home quoting him, haha.)


I think this is seriously the coolest game ever. It's like laser tag but without the claustrophobia; like paintball but without the pain. It's the best of both worlds.

[my dad was especially requested by Dash to play laser combat; he's in his late sixties but he had an absolute blast and came back telling of how he lay dead-still in the grass while Mr G stood right over him, hunting him, but not seeing him.]

The two teams did battle while the party slaves had to go home and get the food ready. Sniff. I so wish I could have played. They all came back to base raving about the fun they'd had. Memories were made, people. And the birthday boy finally got his wish.

After all that crawling through the forest playing sniper, those lads were starving hungry by the time they got back to H.Q. So we fed them...


Camouflage cupcakes, army men cookies, chips and "parfaits"; a fruit platter, carrot sticks... and hot dogs (which *oops* exploded in the pot cos I left them in the water too long, so no photos of them).

[camo cupcakes; edible army men lollies from Kiwi Cakes]
I also laid out for the recruits, their stencilled army t-shirts (I found t-shirts online for $2 each, so I couldn't resist doing one for each of them) and hand-stamped metal dog-tags...


I am rather proud of these, and it must be said that the lads thought they were awesome too (and have been observed afterwards wearing them proudly around the place). Just the right amount of army cool...


Before we served cake, Sergeant G couldn't resist challenging the recruits to an impromptu assault course, to test their mettle...


Nothing like a bit of climbing, swinging, crawling and a few pushups on a full stomach...


And finally, it was time to sing happy birthday to our special 11-year-old (it was his actual birthday) and blow out the candles on what one of his pals called "an epic cake".


The cake was a "battlefield" - with camo on the inside. Remarkably simple to do, but so effective (battlefield cake tutorial here)...


All in all a fabulous birthday celebration, and loads of very cool adventurous fun was had by all. (P.S. Magic is making a video for me of the our session at Laser Combat; when it's ready I'll add it in here so you can all see how fab it is)